BECAUSE YOUR PLEASURE MATTERS.
BECAUSE YOUR PLEASURE MATTERS.
WORK WITH ALEXA
PRIVATE MENTORING & COACHING
Your bespoke 1:1 container where we dive deep, unshackle past conditioning & radically transform your relationship to your body and sexuality.
It’s time to unleash the lioness within.
RECONNECT TO YOUR SEXUALITY.
RECONNECT TO YOUR SEXUALITY.
QUESTION FOR YOU
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
When it comes to sex, you feel numb, shut down and sexually restrained. You want to unleash the lioness within, but you don’t know how.
Orgasm feels like this illusive dream that you struggle to experience, or have never.
You’re tired of being in your head; worrying about what you look like or what your partner might be thinking. It would be so nice to just let go.
You want your sexual appetite back. But you’re constantly tired and your once raging libido is no where to be found.
You feel so much shame around your sex life that you struggle to talk about it. Secretly, you think something might be wrong with you.
You’re afraid that orgasm, sexual freedom and deep, mind-blowing pleasure may never be available to you?
IF YOU CAN RELATE, THEN PLEASE KNOW YOU’RE NOT ALONE.
This is what clients, friends and acquaintances share with me behind closed doors. Or in hushed whispers at parties. And I get it because I’ve been there!
But here’s the truth: sex, pleasure and erotic aliveness are available to us all.
Yup - you read that right. No matter your age. Background. Gender identity. Sexual history. Or relationship status.
Mind-bending out-of-this-world pleasure is 100% possible.
WANT TO KNOW THE BIGGEST BLOCK TO OUR SEXUAL LIBERATION?
Not knowing what it is we truly hunger for.
Let me put it this way. Ever been going hot and heavy with a partner, only for them to ask “What do you want?” - and suddenly you feel like a deer in headlights, not knowing how to answer?
Most of us were never given a real education on the in-depth science of sexual pleasure. Let alone raised in environments that safely supported our own sexual exploration.
And yet - if we don’t know the depths of our own sexual capabilities, how are we expected to share this with our partner(s) - naked?!
To experience the deepest pleasure possible, you have to first learn to speak the language of your body.
We spend so much of our days living inside our heads that we’ve disconnected from what our bodies are trying to tell us.
We rush over our desires. Ignore our impulses. And speed to the finish line, as if on autopilot .
And where does that leave us? Feeling low, unsatisfied and more empty that we did before.
So what’s the answer?
RECLAIM YOUR PLEASURE.
RECLAIM YOUR PLEASURE.
INTRODUCING YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM
Your nervous system is incredible.
It’s job? Simple. To keep you alive & safe no matter what.
And yet your nervous system is not designed to manage our modern day stressors. We deploy the same nervous systems responses to an angry email from our bosses, that we did during our caveman era to flee a hungry tiger!
Our nervous system learns what is safe and what isn’t from our past experiences. Be it our cultural influences, messages we received growing up or previous encounters. And so if sex was never talked about, shamed or seen as unsafe to our younger selves, then it makes complete sense why we struggle to relax and enjoy the entirety of our sexuality.
The thing about our Nervous System, is that it responds instantaneously, without our conscious control. That’s why no matter how much you love your partner, or how deeply you want to feel deep, sexual pleasure - we cannot simply think our way into change. We need to also engage the body.
Thats why we work somatically. In alignment with your nervous system. Attuned to your body’s wants and needs. Letting it know how safe it can be to surrender into pleasure.
WARNING: Effects may cause mind-blowing pleasure, ecstatic self-love and a life you can’t get enough of!
Working with our sexuality is a PROCESS OF UNFOLDING.
And I’ll be guiding you every step of the way!
HOW DO WE DO THIS?
By working in alignment with your magnificent body.
We work somatically, compassionately, and in alignment with your body’s wants and needs. We focus on building a deep connection between mind and body. Where you’re able to listen and honour what your nervous system is trying to communicate with you - opposed to rushing over your very real desires.
That way we’re able to help your body create new neural pathways, release trapped emotions and forge a relationship with your sexuality that’s based in joy, acceptance and compassion.
It’s through this process that we’re able to experience that ‘oh-my-god-I-didn’t-know-my-body-could-do-that’ kind of pleasure.
Expand
your capacity to feel pleasure
Connect
to the deepest parts of yourself
Release
your erotic aliveness out into the world
SO, I HAVE ANOTHER QUESTION FOR YOU
ARE YOU READY TO…
Live your life with more confidence, self-acceptance and erotic possibility?
Expand your orgasmic potential by creating new neurological pathways to pleasure, joy and aliveness?
Finally get out of your head and build a thriving sex life.
Move out of your sexual rut and access more pleasure in your body?
Have a safe space, dedicated entirely to you, where you’re welcome to explore the wholeness of your sensuality?
Learn how to come home to your body, celebrate your uniqueness and feel powerful in your own skin?
Embody your fullest expression and live a life you unwaveringly love?
ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE.
ALL OF YOU IS WELCOME HERE.
MY COMMITMENT TO YOU
I’M HERE TO HELP YOU THRIVE.
Embarking on a journey of embracing your body and sexuality is wildly transformative, and I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
My job is to help illuminate the path you want to walk. To treat every aspect of you with the respect and compassion you innately deserve. And, when the waters get choppy (which they inevitably will), to help remind you that you don’t have to navigate this thing alone.
I combine heartfelt understanding with evidence-based strategies to not only help you heal your relationship with your body and sexuality, but to also empower you to flourish in all aspects of life.
Because life’s just too darn short to live any other way!
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VITA Coaching (A tantric approach to Love, Sex & Relationships by Layla Martin - ongoing)
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certificate (The Embody Lab)
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SOSI International - ongoing)
Mind-Body Practitioner (Mind-Body-Food Institute)
Holistic Life Coach (Mind-Body-Food Institute)
CPD in Applied Neuroscience and Brain Health (The Neuroscience Academy by Sarah McKay)
MA in Creative Business and Entrepreneurship (National Film & Television School, UK)
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THIS WORK IS A PROCESS
A process of healing. A process of reclamation. A process of discovering just how damn powerful you are!
YOUR 5 MONTH DEEP DIVEWHAT’S INCLUDED?
5 Month 1:1 container dedicated to you!
10 x 90 minute coaching sessions on zoom every other week.
Lifetime access to personalised practices and trainings.
Bespoke embodiment tools & homeplay practices - for you to explore between sessions.
Telegram and email access (Mon-Fri); offering support, accountability and guidance.
Monthly Initiation & Integration Guides; to track your progress and celebrate your wins!
YOUR BODY IS MAGNIFICENT.
YOUR BODY IS MAGNIFICENT.
A ROUNDED APPRAOCH
WE EXPLORE YOUR SEXUALITY HOLISTICALLY.
Every part of you is whole and worthy. No part is made wrong, bad or broken. In this work, you get permission to bring your fullest self to the table, and to be fully accepted as the beautiful human being you innately are.
Our sessions will be bespoke to your individual wants and needs, your wellbeing being at the centre of it all. Bellow is a taster of topics and practices we might explore.
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Knowing how to speak the language of the body is like unlocking a whole new way of living. We'll listen to the wisdom, messages and desires your body is trying to communicate, whilst fostering a loving and nurturing relationship with her.
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The art of mapping your body's landscape to explore what and where brings you the most pleasure. We explore the different flavours of sensations, areas of enjoyable sensitivity and how your body feels when building arousal.
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Knowing what you want and when you want it changes the game (both in sex and in life). We'll uncover what a no, yes, maybe, stop and pause feels like in your body - so you can freely speak your mind and communicate your desires with clarity.
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Breathwork is an incredible tool to help us access deeper layers of our body's consciousness. We'll explore how to integrate breathwork into embodiment practices to help you get out of your head, and back into the feeling sensation of your body (where all the best orgasms live).
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Our body's are our homes in this lifetime. And how we think, speak and treat them is key to living a life of ecstatic pleasure. We'll explore any body image hangups, past conditioning and limiting beliefs that might be getting in the way of your orgasmic bliss.
By blending both cognitive and embodiment practices, we create a loving, safe and nurturing environment for profound transformation.
“I’m so different from where I was just at the beginning of this year, and I’m starting to really gain confidence in myself! Thank you for your value. I appreciate you and the work we do together.”
— Client Testimonial
RECLAIM YOUR EROTIC NATURE.
RECLAIM YOUR EROTIC NATURE.
GOT A Q? I GOT AN A
FAQ’s
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My expertise is with female bodied individuals (Assigned Female at Birth). If you want to work with me, but don't identify with the above, feel free to get in touch and we can go from there.
It's important to note that although I'm trauma informed and have worked with survivors of sexual assault, I work within the parameters of a coaching methodology, which is not a substitute for therapeutic work. If you've experienced Sexual Trauma, I advise clients seek the support of a certified therapist or trauma specialist before getting in touch.
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Lasting transformation takes time, especially when it comes to building new neural pathways, experiencing somatic change, and developing deep self-trust with your body and sexuality. Which I why I work with clients on a 5 months minimum basis.
However, I get that we all live busy lives, and not everyone can commit to this. If you're unsure about the time commitment, feel free to reach out, and we can explore a shorter option.
If you have any questions, please book a free call or email me to discuss further.
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No! The work we do together, and the embodiment practices we explore are done solo. And that's intentional.
This container is dedicated entirely to you; your body, your healing and your sexuality. With our partner(s), we can often get caught up worrying what they're thinking, what they want and tailor our sexual experience to tend to their needs.
This is a space for YOU. Where we can safely explore YOUR pleasure, on YOUR terms, without having to be concerned for anyone else.
That's why your "homeplay" and embodiment practices are designed to be done solo.
Outside of our work together, rock on with your badass self ;)
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The quick answer - yes! In fact, for the majority of my clients, this is the first time they've invested in exploring their sexuality. So have no fear, I meet you exactly where you are and we build from there.
The long answer - it's normal to feel apprehensive and nervous exploring this work. Most of us never get a real education on sex and pleasure. This then leads to stigmas, fears, shame, a not knowing of how to talk about any of this, a resistance to self touch and a culture of performative sexuality that leaves most of us feeling empty and unsatisfied.
If you're curious about this work, but not sure if you're ready, my advice would be to get in touch with what it is you most want from your sexuality and your life. If you feel like working directly with me can help, then book a call and we can have a conversation about your concerns (no sales-y BS here!). And if you don't think I can help, then I celebrate you for knowing what you need!
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Somatic sex coaching is a powerful, body-based method that helps you reconnect with your pleasure and sexuality. Through guided conversation, body awareness exercises, and practical tools, coaching focuses on releasing shame, numbness, and disconnection.
Studies show that 80% of coaching clients report improved self-confidence, 70% experience enhanced relationships, and 90% feel greater fulfilment and emotional well-being.
Coaching works by combining personalised guidance with hands-on techniques to deepen your connection to your body and desires. Investing in somatic sex coaching allows you to unlock greater pleasure, boost intimacy, and live with more aliveness, confidence, and sexual fulfilment.
“Learning to love radically means loving the hardest yet most beautiful parts of ourselves unapologetically.”
SONYA RENEE TAYLOR - activist & author of The Body Is Not An Appology